Still hope?..

Jenna • Mommy to Alexa Leigh born 3/28/17
Ok ladies just need some feedback, and wondering if this has happened to other people. Currently 12dpo, AF due 12/31. Bfn this morning with fmu. Is there any hope left? I worry because I keep seeing all these bfps a lot earlier than day 12 from everyone else! Breats are so sore, and I am cramping very lightly, not light AF cramps at all very intermittent and light. Someone give me some hope! Should I hold off from testing again for a few days?