Oct 31st is suppose to be the day for my first c section, I'm scared, I'm anxious, I'm excited. I have had two vaginal deliveries now due to minor complications im doing a c section I hear so many negative things about it. About the pain, about the scaring, about the after  affect on your stomach. Ugh I don't know what to expect 😩 but why do people have to say such negative things about it!? I don't expect it to be easy but is it really that bad? Has anyone on here had a c section? How bad is the after effect? Is it really hard to go back to normal afterwards? What about if I want to breast feed is it harder after a c section?