POSSIBLY TMI PHOTOS!! I'm self-conscious...

I've been married 5 mo. today and in those months. I've gained 25.1 Lbs, going from 125 to 151.1 (which caused some stretch marks on my belly and thighs) I want to lose weight but I need help, I want to please my man and be "good looking" for him, but not just for him. I enjoyed being petite but I don't want to be as small as I was in college again.. people thought I wasn't eating like anorexic or bulimic.. I don't want those words being used to describe me again, what's worse than calling someone anorexic/bulimic isn't when they actually ARE, it's when they REALLY AREN'T, I wasn't but those words were still used to describe me in terms of weight, starting when I was in 6th grade... ladies I need help. What should I do to look good for my hubby but still be comfortable in my skin..?