Advice?

I'm 22 and only nust recently lost my virginity. We've had sex like 4 times so far. I have next to no idea what I'm doing. Ive handled myself on my own for years so its taking some getting used to having someone else do. He goes down on me and its pretty good. But it takes longer than if I do it myself. &When we actually fuck it doesnt hurt but it isnt all that great.

How long does it take for intercourse to feel good?

I know he wants me to ride him but that scares the hell out of me.

What can I do to make it better for both of us?