Ladies with blue balls 😭

Tristan • My angel is in heaven; Rusty Lee, I love you. 💕
Okay ladies. I'm having a really hard time with pleasure. 
Hubby loves sex until he cums and then that's that. We both want a baby but I want PLEASURE TOO! I feel like he doesn't care... I need to feel good too. He hates the fact that I want a vibrator, because he doesn't want any'one' else to please me. But I'm seriously laying here dying because of this 'blue balls' thing. 😭 
Any tips or advice?