Oh husband of mine...

Don't get me wrong, I love my husband to death and he's my best friend, but holy goodness I just want to smack him. I've been having constant contractions for over 24 hrs every 4-5 mins (I'm not technically in "active labor" because I'm not dilated enough), and I've been doubled over in pain, and not once has he offered to rub my back, or anything to try to help soothe the pain. I don't ask for much, I really don't, but dang it... I'm crying because of the pain and his ass is in bed snoring away. This is both our first child, and I guess I'm just tore up that he's just not offering to help more, if that makes sense. Is anyone's else SO like this?