My poor fiancé 😭

So I am 25 weeks 3 days along, and currently my fiancé and I live 1,000 miles apart. 😔 he owns his own business in Indiana, and we actually met online last year. I'm currently in Rhode Island, and we have been back and forth the last 8 months to see each other and trying to set up my transition to move. But I've been stuck in court here in RI dealing with a domestic case from my ex (I'm a domestic abuse survivor) and gaining custody of my oldest son, Nate. 

My fiancé started having a break down yesterday and crying (which I've never seen him do before). He is petrified because he feels absolutely no attachment to our son, due in February. This makes me so worried because I already went through a pregnancy by myself with Nate and been a single mother for almost 3 years, and now I'm pretty much doing this on my own even with the traveling to and from Indiana. I want him to have this relationship and bond with Ethan, I just don't know how at this point. This wasn't what we imagined at all... nor did we imagine my ex would assault me at 12 weeks pregnant in front of my son. 

Please don't be mean. Like I said everyone's situation is different. I'm just hoping for some guidance.