Do I have the right to be upset if my husband insults me bc of my weight?

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Of course I'm gonna gain weight, I'm carrying our child. He constantly makes rude remarks about me being chubby and when I can workout intensely like I did prior to my pregnancy. I tell him to stop and that it upsets me but it's like I'm talking to a brick wall.....

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I'm sincerely broken hearted for you that your husband is treating you disrespectfully  and hurting you when you're carrying his child.

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Obviously, anyone voting "No, suck it up" is used to being constantly disrespected. That's terrible, I would be so upset.

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That's disgusting behavior. My husband just said, "you don't say things like that in general, but to your pregnant wife? Do you want to get shot in the face?"
That's not okay. You need to sit down with him and tell him if he doesn't knock it off, he can start sleeping on the damn couch or somewhere else.

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Maybe he thinks he's being funny? But it sounds like a dick move to me, if you've said you don't like it that should be all he needs to hear to stop. Don't let him pick down your confidence. You're definitely going to gain weight and it's healthy and good to do so.

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I'd literally probably have a breakdown if my man told me that. Hardly even a man at that point. Terrible! You are NOT fat, you're PREGNANT. He's been repeating that to me from the beginning.

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Unacceptable behavior and I would not tolerate that on any level and you shouldn't either I would tell him he better shut up or get the heck out of the house that is completely wrong and he is a pig for saying anything horrible like that

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I'm sorry you are enduring verbal abuse from your spouse 😔. You have every right to feel however you do! Have you told him how it makes you feel? Talked to him about it? Don't put up with it.

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I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. It is absolutely wrong and he is being a bully. You are pregnant and your body is nourishing and growing  your child. How dare he comment on your weight.

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Please look at loveisrespect.org. You deserve so much better

Do I have the right to be upset if my husband insults me bc of my weight?

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