So here it is . .my brother started dating this girl and she seemed kinda high maintenance. . Or how my husband says . . "You can take a girl out of hood, but not hood out the girl" anyways so fast forward. . The. Ended up getting pregnant and had my beautiful niece. .well shortly after that they got a place close by and so since she wasn't working we spent a lot of time together on days I was off. .mainly bc I couldn't get enough of niece. .so I started to realize how she really was . .she liked to just blow money on stupid shit and when it came down to buying my niece diapers she would always tell my brother. "It's your daughter buy her diapers" (by now she had a job) anyways so now my niece is 2 and I feel like they're always having problems. She's always quits her job and throws a fit bc she wants money for stupid stuff and gets mad when my brother worries about priorities (bills, groceries, etc). Then she gets all physically violent wanting to swing and fight my brother. Bc she knows my brother will never hit her like her ex did. Lately she's been blowing up my phone and keep telling me "oh, we got into a fight. .blah blah blah" but she turns it around to make herself the victim. And honestly I know my brother sticks around bc of his daughter. . And I'm so fed up with it .I really hate that she intentionally pushes him to edge and when he is mad she's all crying and can't "handle it" but yet she always talking about how she is so tough blah blah blah when I'm reality she wants him to "make up" by takin her out or buying her something. I want my brother to truly be happy. And I've really thought about maybe they're better off being separate. But I'm afraid she will try to keep my niece from him. If they do split I hope it's not too late for my brother to start over and continue having a family (BTW she didn't want anymore kids so she got tube tied or whatever didn't even care if my brother was upset) I'm just tired of it . I've came to realize that she is such a selfish greedy person. No matter what I will always side with my brother . . We been through our parents splitting and it was hard so I'm guessing that's what keep him trying . . 😣