Anyone in a similar position?

Hey ladies, I have no trouble falling pregnant. Ive actually been pregnant plenty of time and have 4 healthy kids but im a little freaked out after reading up about depo shots. Ive received two this year as we werent decided on whether or not we wanted another. Turns out my partner wants to try for a girl and hes finally talked me into it and im actually excited now. However im due for my next Depo Shot in 2 weeks . Im going to start tracking my ovulation and things as of November as the depo may be out of my system. I just wanted to know is there anything i can take to help my body go back to normal and ovulate regularly so i can get preg ASAP? Have it all planned out and hoping to get my first monthly period in December and then start tracking to hopefully get preg in Jan/Feb so bub will be due Oct/Nov.

Also is there anything we can do to conceive a girl? There are no girls in my partners side of the family and really want to make that possible.

Im seriously so excited to plan and have my body in top shape for a healhy pregnancy. Ive started to take folic acid daily and im thinkinf of buying some pre conception supplements and use those for the next few months prior to conceiving.

I also suffer extremely bad all day and night sickness when pregnant , which ususally wears off after 14-16 weeks- do you know if my body is full of nutrients and its prepared to carry a preganncy will my sickness not be as bad as it usually is? In the past my pregnancies have always been a surprises and i never actually prepared my body for it like im going to do now.