donor disappointment

Shaqwan • My wife and I have been together for 5 1/2 years. Recently married in June hoping this app will help us start a family💕
My wife and i are using a donor to get pregnant. This morning was unsuccessful for the 2nd month. How do you deal with the disappointment emotionally. I know some aren't as fortunate to get pregnant the first time but it really hurts because I feel like I'm letting my spouse down😢 is anyone using a donor as well??