pushy husband

I just had a baby 8 months ago and had to get an abortion just a few days ago & I'm just irritated bc my husband keeps pushing anal sex on me. We were told vaginal no penetration for a week & plus I still have a cyst down there from the episiotomy of my last birth & even then I was still having sex w him even tho it was extremely painful for me. But right now I'm still depressed, grieving & just hormonal that I honestly can't stomach anal right now nor do I want any accidental bacteria to travel up front bc sometimes when we're tryin to insert from behind it still touches the outside of my vagina since he can't see in the dark. What should I do? I'm just really in a shitty crabby mood & he just won't leave me alone. I just want to try & get better before I hop right back to sex & it's literally only been 3 days.