Trying soft cup to help me get pregnant.

My DH decided on trying soft cup this cycle

If we bd i put the soft cup in right after we are done and leave it in over night. Last night i fell asleep early evening didn't feel like bd when i woke back up and needed to get ready for bed. So i asked my DH to finish in the soft cup and then i put in and slept with it in overnight.

I did put preseed in about 15 min before. Do any of you ladies have any tips or tricks that work for you with these. Thanks in advance