My husband who I am about to file for divorce with is s nasty piece of work, the whole reason I left him was because he's emotionally abusive. He's a narcissist. Basically his family think he's this loving guy when he isn't so I'll end up being hated for giving birth in my home country the UK as I'm 29+3 along now with my pregnancy. His family have found out I'm not going to give birth in the US and they are telling him to do alsorts while slagging me off !!

He told me they are telling him to take full custody of the baby and my heart dropped , I've never cried so much ! I don't want anyone taking a baby away from me especially not for him to then be put with my abusive husband.

Then he says he won't take full custody but when my son is old enough for school he will take him for a whole summer/winter..... Again I don't want that. Honestly I'm not being selfish but I'd be on edge all the time about my sons safety and my husband plays tricks with people by telling them lies on lies.

I'd be worried that if my son ever visited would be talked into how amazing his life would be in America compared to in the UK with me, he would believe it and turn round to me like "mum I don't wanna live with you. I wanna live with dad"

Is there any way I can stop my husband seeing my baby unaccompanied? I would much rather be there with them both to keep an eye on what's going on