Husband is driving me insane
I'm a SAHM to a toddler and I'm pregnant. My husband works a little less than full time (34 hrs a week) and he acts like he does sooo much work around the house. He complains about how his day never ends when he gets home from work and he can't relax but it's all BS. He comes home and plants his ass on the couch for an hour playing on his phone the second he walks in. While I'm dealing with a screaming toddler and trying to cook dinner with one hand while I hold our kid with the other. He hears her crying and doesn't do anything. The only thing he needs to do is take the trash out sometimes and let the dog out. I do that all day long. But he bitches that he needs to do it once or twice a day. I love staying home but it's not like I just sit around watching tv all day. I'm always cleaning and cooking and doing laundry and playing with our kid and taking them to the park and doing all the grocery shopping and house hunting. And on top of that he's in online school. 5 classes and I'm doing all of it for him. I've asked him to help me by doing the super easy discussion check ins twice now and he waits until the last minute and then has the balls to bitch at me about him missing an assignment when he still has an A in the class. And he complains about not being able to do anything for himself but he still hangs out with his friends once a week and plays sports and plays video games a few times a week. It's just fucking ridiculous. He acts like it's my fault if he bums around on the couch all day and didn't get a chance to see his friends for one weekend. I never get to see my friends or do anything but I never complain about it because I love being with my family but he acts like it's a huge drain on him. And he complains about not having sex constantly. But we still have sex a couple times a week and if we don't have sex I blow him! He never goes a week without getting something but god forbid l don't fuck him for 3 days in a row and suddenly it's "we never have sex anymore you never blow me anymore". Like FUCK. ME. I'm ready to rip my hair out sometimes. Why is he like this. Why did I marry such a whiney man child.
I've been in other long term relationships where our sex life was pretty similar except way less blow jobs and no one had EVER complained about not having sex enough or said we never have sex. It literally blows my mind when I hear him say that. We have friends without kids who aren't married and still don't have sex even once a week. So I feel like getting it on 2-3 times a week is pretty good. At least for me it is. I've had it and I've told him to just go get a girlfriend so he will stop complaining about not enough getting enough sex or blowjobs. I told him he already acts and treats me like he never gets sex so I might as well just stop having sex with him all together.
Just for clarification, I already have my degree, husband does not. I have plenty of job options if I wanted to work but I like being a SAHM and raising our kids. I've been doing his school work for him to help him out because it is A LOT of work. And he would end up staying up late every night working on it if I didn't do it.
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