dumb questions ur asked during pregnancy

My pastor who married my husband and I found out we're 6 mos pregnant and was so thrilled. His first question was "how did that happen?" I had no clue how to answer that question and told him. "I don't think it need to be brought into detail" he laughed it off and was like yea no. Y would u ask that. 🤔 
A cousin of mine also told me she thought it was funny I got pregnant because I just graduated college and started up my career and now I'd have to start all over and go back to school. What?!?!? 
I don't know if she ask questions and then ignores me or if She really is so ditsy. It's just funny how she'll insist I said things I never said. She once insisted I said my son looks like my husbands grandma who's dark skinned.  My son looks like me and his dad is light skinned. Thats def not something I'd say about my son. Wth he looks nothing like her. Lmao but she'll insist I said it. 😒