Trying to hide out...
I'm having a c section in 2 days and I'm very excited to meet my baby girl. I've been fairly social throughout my pregnancy, which is a big deal because I definitely like my "hermity" lifestyle. We just had a big weekend with my husband's family, and I'm ready to just finish up my nesting, catch up on rest, and enjoy time with my husband and my dogs. I understand that people love us and are excited about our baby, but I really just want to be left alone for the rest of my pregnancy.
I love my aunt, but she's been calling constantly- it would be fine, but it's impossible to get off the phone with her sooner than an hour. I have other aunts and family members from both sides texting me constantly, wanting to know if I'm ready for the baby, or wanting to come visit, and I just can't handle it anymore! I've stopped answering my house phone (no cell service, thank goodness) and haven't been opening my Facebook messages. I haven't been posting on social media...I'm trying to just disappear quietly for a couple of days but everyone is making it impossible! Is it selfish of me to ignore unnecessary phone calls and messages, or am I justified in wanting to enjoy my last couple days of solitude?
I should add that I'm absolutely NEVER rude to anyone who contacts me- I'm the type of person who is always polite, no matter what. My husband says I'm too nice and considerate. I just don't want to explain to dozens of people that I want to be left alone.
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