baby fever - confusing boyfriend
My SO of almost 3 years knows how much I want to become a mom. He knows how much I would love to have a baby. I very often get sad about it because I know it's not the right time, but I can't help myself from it. But earlier we were talking about it, and he knows my fertile window started today, and he said "if you want a baby, let's go. Come on we can do this if you want"
But I feel like I'm pushing him into it. And I would never ever want to do that... so I just pushed it off, and then he asks me why I never take him seriously.... but he's said so many times how this isn't the right time, and we should wait, etc etc. and he doesn't believe in "trying fora baby"
He says if it happens, it happens. But he doesn't think that it's "right" to "try" for a baby.
I'm so confused because I want this so much. But I don't want to do this if it's only me who wants to have a baby... I want us to be on the same page. Ugh. Advice? Tips? How do I go about this? I always bring this topic up but he ends up changing his mind and saying no.. I just don't understand him saying yes and then no...
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