Selfish?

Question

My boyfriend has two kids from a previous marriage. I'd never been sure I even wanted kids until I found out about my little Blueberry. I'm totally in love but I don't want morr children after this. Three is more than enough for me, so I plan on talking to my doctor this week about getting my tubes tied.

My SO isn't happy about it. He wants one more after this one. I was honest about not wanting to have children in the first place. He finally agreed to support my decision even though he doesn't agree, but he keeps referencing our "next" child.

Am I really being that unreasonable or selfish?

Answer

He's being selfish and unreasonable. You've made your decision. If you don't want more children, then you don't have more children. Easy as that. Pressuring you to have more or even referencing it is rude, inconsiderate and shows a lack of respect for your decisions. 
Sounds as if you two really need to have a talk.

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If you know you are one and done then that's it. I'm one and done. Pregnancy freakin' sucks. If he wants more let him get a uterus.

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I think u will want one more later but is your decision... I want one more my boyfriend has two from another relationship and I have two from another and now we are finally expecting our first and I still one another one... lol but I know I shouldn't because I'm poor..

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You're just expressing how you feel, that's not selfish. It may be worth taking more time to discuss it and think about all the options. You don't have to rush into anything, and his opinion is just as important as your own. So take the time to consider everything before getting your tubes tied, just to be sure you and he are both 100% on board.

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I feel the same exact way but depending on age, state and circumstances some Drs won't do it. So double check that they'll do the procedure for you.

But they also have like 10 year birth control and 5 year birth control opens instead of Depo and the Pill...

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I would wait to make a decision after you have your first!

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