TMI. What should I do?

Really do not want judgment here just need a option ..my s/o makes ne feel unwanted sexually he does not like or understand the fact that my clit is a little big I guess it turns him off . we are all made different and its something I can not help . he doesn't give me any oral sex ...its like our sex life lacks a lot but things that hes curious to try like anal which I am not into I still try because I want to please him I feel like he doesn't bend a little for me like I do for him and I am almost ready to fulfill my desires elsewhere but I am confused on what I should do. .??any suggestions