Why does it hurt so bad?

Question

Ok every time my boyfriend and I have sex it hurts. Not so much because he's stretching me but because he's too long or something  and he hits what feels like my insides like my intestines or something ha. But anyways, is there a way to stop this from happening? Will it ever go away? He's a new partner so maybe my body just has to get use to him? I just feel like I can't have a good time because it hurts so bad

Answer

How are your periods? Do they get very painful? Heavy with many clots? Nausea and vomiting? Fever or hot flashes? Diarrhoea? Pain in parts of your body that aren't your uterus? Can't stand up or function? When you have sex does it feel like it's not quite deep enough to hit your cervix?

If yes to some of these have a look into endometriosis. That type of feeling you described is similar/identical to the sexual pain symptom of endo. I've personally felt that feeling. It sucks.

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My bf and I were virgins when we had sex and during the first year that's how it would feel! I'd feel it in my belly button and like my intestines.. it was weird !  I would feel it less if he was on top and I was just laying down I didn't wanna do any fancy positions  lol but as soon as I'd get on top or if he put my legs up that's when it would hurt ! I thought something was wrong too lol but now it's been two years and I haven't had any problems so I think it's because our body maybe needs to adjust. Maybe he needs to go slower and not try to put it in all the way?

Answer

If you are new at sex that is normal. Your vagina deepens & moves your uterus & cervix as you become aroused. If he is hitting too deep try to have more foreplay & be gentler in the positions that it hurts

Why does it hurt so bad?

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