Any mommies with experience???

It's looking like my lil girl needs surgery when she's born. Her bowels have been dilated for a couple weeks & the swelling hasn't gone down. I have to be induced before my due date because I live 2 hours away from a children's hospital. She's been in the Frank breech for a couple weeks now.

I'm looking for anyone with experience who could answer a few questions for me :)

How did you cope with your newbie needing surgery?!

What was the outcome with your baby if it had dilated bowels?

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If your baby was in a breech & you were induced early, did baby flip?! I am terrified of the c-section process!