My bump hasn't gotten "hard yet, but I'm sure that'll happen very soon. Toby's getting so big! He's so active when I try to sleep. When he moves, I watch this giant bulge move from one side of my belly to the other. It looks and feels like the weirdest thing! There's a little human inside me!!!! Whaaaaat!! The more (and harder) he kicks, the more I realize there's a LIVING, BREATHING, MOVING tiny human IN MY BODY!!!!!💙💙💙💙💙💙 It makes me a little sad that his father didn't want to be around for all this because it's pretty remarkable and he's definitely missing out. I do feel a lot less stressed after cutting ties (to an extent) with the father. It's his loss if he can't be there for his son. I actually feel bad for the men who miss out on stuff like this, whether they're working a lot, over seas, or not involved. Seeing and feeling my LO be so active is so amazing and I love every second of it😊💙