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High energy cousin wants to be present at birth

I'm 35 weeks pregnant with my second child, normally very modest and private. With first I only had hubby and doula present. Second time around I asked my best friend, as I think it would be helpful to me, as well as an educational experience before she gets pregnant.

Recently my cousin told me she was very hurt I didn't ask her to be present for first birth, despite knowing I didn't want anybody there. I feel like she is fishing for an invitation to this one. I love her but don't think it would be good for me or hubby to have her there. She does not know I asked my BFF.

Should I be honest with cousin? Lie? rescind invite to BFF? Worried about hurt feelings.

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