a lot of you women constantly say hickeys are trashy, gross, marks of a whore, disgusting, childish (yes I've seen that one) all in all you say it's a terrible thing, a whorish thing. YET when a woman has slept around or has her own kinks (literally anything but hickeys) that's completely fine? Hickeys are a turn on for some, they're a kink for some so why bash them for that but condone all other sexual preferences? It honestly just baffles me and I'd love some answers 🤔 before anyone says anything, yes I know hickeys can be dangerous, PLEASE leave that out of your answer 😊

I'm sure I worded this very poorly so please excuse that. Also, this is not a kink of my own but I don't see how it's trashy either.