The first of many warning signs that I made a HUUGE mistake marrying too fast was realising me and my husband didn't actually have that much in common..

He always pretended to like what I liked , not everything , but enough for me to be stupid and believe he was a good catch and we would be perfect for each other 😑😑

His friend once had to give me a lift to the hospital and while he was driving we talked about just every day things and after then going home to an empty house (my husband was away at the time ) I sat there and just thought that me and my husband never engage in good conversation. Like, I always have stuff to talk about..always and I would even try ask him random questions to get him to open up more but nope nothing.. Nothing buy ignorance. Then if he met his mates and girl colleagues especially he would be talking loads and having a laugh.... Don't know why but that was enough to piss me off ! Especially baring in mine that he was verbally abusive to me