husband advice

    I remember when I first met my husband we use to have amazing long beautiful sex! And I've seen that it's a stereo type that once couples get married the drive deplishes and I've tried in the past to spice things up. Asking questions like his favorite position to keep things interesting. But,I find it so degrading they he'll wake me up out of my sleep for 10 minutes of sex? I can see if it was a once in awhile thing but everyday? What do I do? I'm sure no one wants to hear your not pleasing me?