Anybody found love after having two babies with two different fathers?

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I'm really panicking I will be judged by everyone, especially men for having two children with two different fathers.... I'm very emotional right now, & thinking the worst. Currently pregnant with baby number 2 with a different father, and still a single parent.

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yes I did...I have 2 kids...both different last names..I about gave up..I am now married and am pregnant...tgings happen..men say they will stay and end up dumping us bc they get to stressed...there are real men out there that will raise your babies as his own:) it's wonderful

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Me! I had 3 by 3 different dads was not how I planned my life at all... First dad scarpered cos we were really young n it was a major shock n e was a complete dead beat... Still is.... Second dad got sent to prison for violence... 3rd dad cheated on me after 5 years with a 42 year old married woman n we were only 22. I stayed single for 2 years cos I thought who the hell would want me then I met someone via a dating site, met them, 14 months later we are married and I am carrying his baby currently 15 weeks along and he's taken my other 3 on as if they're his own and couldn't do enough for us all :) hope u find this happiness for yourself too Hun xx

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"Let those without sin cast the first stone"
 Look sweetie no one has a right to judge you. Not man nor woman has a right to judge you. You didn't come on here looking for judgement. I will be honest and tell you this...yes, it is extremely possible to find love while having kids. People prove it everyday. If a man looks down on you for having children by different men He doesn't deserve to be in your presence in the first place. Things happen, good things and bad but children are a blessing. You will get that kind of love you always wanted. You just need to right now put your children first. Their well being is most important. Your prince will come... just let the frogs pass you by. Believe in yourself... love will always be there. Take care of your children and yourself first.

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You are right. You are definitely going to get judged by everyone really. Lets start making better choices with your fertility. You are the only one that has control over that. Not the men, but you.

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Finding love should be the last thing on your mind right now.

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I think any strong, independent, and capable woman raising her children well, living life happily and owning her place in the world will attract many men. You need to stop doubting yourself and get on with it. It's not a matter of if any man will want you- it's about accepting how awesome you are for carrying the load for two tiny humans by yourself, making a life, and if a guy comes along that is good enough to be included in your awesome life then he is very lucky. Hugs xxx

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Oh because everyone has perfect life's? And married people dont cheat, or split up, or abuse each other. Things happen in life and it's just the way it is but no one is perfect and me personally don't think it's bad or makes you a bad parent. As long as you love your babies that's all that matters 💜

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You'll be fine there is always a man willing to take you on and your kids just gota find him don't worry about it focus on your kids and everything will fall into place

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If someone is judging you, you don't need them in your life. I had been threw a divorce and a failed relationship ( with a horrible person ) when I meet my husband. He also had one divorce under his belt. We never judged each other because we made wrong choices in our dating history. We are now raising 5 children.  3 of mine from a prior relationship. He had one prior, we have one together. If someone judges then they have no life and are miserable. Because we are happy, and we make things work. I rather my children see me happy, then to stay in a failed relationship, just because I had kids by that person. It's possible to find love the 3 time around. Don't worry about what people think or if they judge, worry about knowing that you deserve the best and don't settle.

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Aww babe. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I could put myself in your shoes and know how you feel. This is such a sucky world with people and all of their judgements. But I will say this, a man that is for you are gonna love your kids like his own. I'd definitely invest in getting BC or using protection as a lesson learned to eliminate feeling this way any further if another kid were to pop up, but a man will love you. I've known women with four kids with four different fathers and they still find a man. Men could only judge you based off what you show them. If you carry yourself with decency and respect, men and others will respect you. And a man that truly sees the gem you are is gonna support you.

Anybody found love after having two babies with two different fathers?

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