Should I be mad?

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I'm 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend is leaving to Vegas with a few of his friends. I want to be happy for him but it kinda makes me feels unimportant. Im not sure how I should feel right now, but I know I'm not happy he went. 
I also feel very alone in my pregnancy. I almost feel like when my baby comes, mentally I'll be "checked out" from him. I honestly feel that when my baby comes, I'll just had a mindset of "ok NOW you want to be here with me? Where were you when I was pregnant?"

Also! My birthday is nov 14. And he's using his sick time to go to vegas instead of my birthday. He says he's trying to find a switch but nov 14 lands on a Monday. No one likes working on a Monday. It just really really upsets me.

He's technically supposed to work the weekend of going to Vegas but he's calling off and using sick time. But says he's finding a switch for my birthday. Not sure why it's ok to call off for Vegas and not my birthday.

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Personally, my husband and I don't travel without each other. Vegas is called the "city of sin" for a reason. But that's us, that how we roll. I know not everyone feels the same.

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You should give him a break. If trust isn't an issue, you're going to be ok. Remeber, he is dealing with just as much as you, just different. He deserves to blow off some steam too. Draw boundaries! It's 2 days, go pamper yourself!!!

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I wouldn't care at all.   Let him have some fun and enjoy your alone time

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I just can't help it- what the hell does a committed man have to do without his SO in Vegas that is good??? Like what is there to do in Vegas that doesn't involve anything questionable...I've been twice and there is no incentive for a committed man to go there alone. Unless it's for something you wouldn't be down with...that's a hard NO from me. Actually even suggesting it would make me question his commitment.

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I would be. Did you tell him how you feel about it? I'd think you'd have more of a right to be mad at 8 or 9 months, but even at 7 a lot can happen

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Mmmm depends. I'm pretty open with my husband I let him do whatever but lately being pregnant I've been weird about it. He asked me to go to Denver for a football game the day after my birthday and I knew I made a sad face. Normally I'd never care but for some reason I want him with me. We've tried for 3 years to get pregnant I almost don't even want him to miss a day!

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I went to Vegas without the father in the beginning of my pregnancy. I'd be more annoyed if he was upset about it. Couples don't have to do everything together and everyone is allowed to get a break from reality every once in a while with friends.

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Id let it go and try to be happy for him. Don't think I'd be upset with my hubby if he wanted to take a weekend trip with his friends.. & I'll be seven months next week. Unless he is someone who goes out and does what he wants all the time I don't think it would bother me. Just miss him while he was gone. Just my opinion (:

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He's just having a few days of fun. No big deal.

Should I be mad?

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