Is something wrong? Help

Question

I have been mastrabating for about a year or so now and I realized that when I feel my clip it feels ok but not really that good (especially compared to how everyone else says it feels). And I only really ever have small orgasims  (I've only had them through clit stimulation, but everyone says that's supposed to be the best). Is there something wrong? Should I be worried?
BTW I have tried fingering and vibration but that never felt good or made a difference. Also I don't want to use toys because I am a virgin. And I do make sure I'm turned on and stuff. Please help me I'm very worried that something is wrong or that when I do have sex that it won't feel good.

Answer

Hey man, there's nothing wrong with you. Nothing.

Everyone is different, everyone reacts to things different.

And using toys won't affect your "virginity". It won't make you looser, it won't affect anything like that. And your hymen won't break unless you push it far enough. Try getting a vibrator, a little one. AliExpress.com sells them insanely cheap, I got mine for like $2. and it's discreet packaging.

Try making yourself as wet as possible, it really does make a difference. You can use spit or lube, both work really well.

I myself can only have an orgasm through clitoral stimulation, it took me years to figure that out lol. Books and movies describe it as this bug, extravagant explosion where you see stars, but it isn't like that. What you're experiencing is normal. Don't let expectations ruin it for you.

One thing you could try is making it last longer. Get yourself close and then slow down, and do that over and over again.

Another thing, if you fully relax, it feels a million times better and will help you get there. Don't tense up, just lay back.

Again, you're perfectly normal and there's nothing wrong with you. Don't let your expectations of what it should feel like ruin sex for you.

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