S.O is driving me CRAZY!! (rant)

I really wish that for a day men can go through what we go through. Just for a few hours. So that they can know how it really feels to be 8 months pregnant and unable to control emotions and pretend like you're feeling perfect and having a perfect day when you really just want to punch whoever looks at you. I'm really trying to be in my best happy mood but sometimes I just don't feel amazing. I have aches and pains and I'm pretty much over being pregnant at this stage. My husband on the other hand has no idea how it feels to be going through this. My feet swell up in an instant and he doesn't even offer to help by massaging them. I had asked him to fix the mattress on our bed, as it's a bit worn out and the springs were pinching into my side and it only took him 4 days to do it. He sets an alarm clock to wake him up but doesn't get out of bed until I'm already enraged that it's gone off five times and he's still sleeping like a baby while I was trying to get comfortable on bed springs all night. I just feel at this point that I don't have an equal partner. I know he works and provides but I need someone who's going to try to understand what I'm going through right now. I need to be sure before this baby gets here that I'm not going in alone. I'm honestly terrified. Today was the first bad argument we've had and I honestly felt like packing my things and going to my mothers. I feel ignored and unappreciated right now. I'm afraid that's going to continue even after I give birth. Judy because I don't work everyday what I like staying home and taking care of a baby and a house isn't going to seem busy enough. Yes I may flip out more than usual but I can't always control my emotions either at this time. I just wish men would take the time to better understand us.