baby shower

I had my baby shower today, and while some people did show up, a lot of people who we "so excited to come" didn't even show up. And when I texted them to ask if they were coming, they didn't even text back. I'm not so much angry as I am sad. I made all of the food myself,  I spent all night and half of this morning making enough food for over 30 people, and then only about 15 showed up. Idk, I'm just a bit hurt.