feeling depressed.

We moved from living at the same home for past 15 years. Now have a bigger home and much nicer but was so much work for me. I feel like I'm the only one doing things. I cook clean take care of kids. I get so tired. I also work everyday. Today my step son who is in placement for his behavior, got rude and sent to deal with his dad so I didn't have issues and was still wrong. Husband told me that I'm too intense every day and no one can do anything around me. He's sorry he thought things be okay and he'd be a normal family. I swear even doing what I thought was right is wrong. I feel nothing is ever enough for anyone. I am wearing myself out beyond worn out and feel like no point. Is it all just hormones?