My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years in April. Whenever we tell people that, they always ask when "the big day" is. We aren't even engaged yet.. It bothers me because I don't want my boyfriend who is only 19 (I'm 22) to feel pressured. These past few weeks a lot of couples have been getting engaged and I just am worried he'll propose because he thinks he has too. We are in no rush to be married at all.. I can wait another 5-6 years but I don't want him to think that I want him to right now. Anyone else going through this with either family, friends, or even strangers?