RANT sexism in the family

i love my brother to death and HATE that my brother never gets seriously reprimanded for anything even though he is older than me but if i mess up even a little bit, the world is literally over and i'm blamed for everything falling apart. he is praised for doing the bare minimum and if i slack just a little bit, i get a lot of shit. its so frustrating bc he can behave however he wants and everyone has to understand because he's under stress but i have to be perfect at all times otherwise im blamed for shit thats not even my fault. i cant wait to have sons so i can raise them to take responsibility for their own actions and not blame women everytime they fuck up. i dont need advice i just needed to vent. im SO fuckin pissed right now