Any ladies going threw having a stingy SO???

Hello ladies so my SO been shacking withe for almost 2 years and he did have a good hustle as an alley mechanic but he spent most of his time trying to build his own car...... When I met him he had a job and didn't seem to be stingy at all the first night I met him he got my hair done and brought me a drink and explained that he hate women whose always after a mans money.....so we started a relationship and he paid me a few hundreds to move in with me then lost his job.....I seen his receipt from his work check that I guess fell out his pocket or wallet and it said 236.00 I was like damn he not making nothing might as well not have worked but if I would have never seen that I would've thought he was making big bucks hell he's a mechanic and said he build cars but I later learned he has 4 kids and had just got a divorce I'm not sure if child support was/is an issue and alimony because I never seen the actual check stub.....I was pleased that he even had a few hundreds to give me to move in after seeing that receipt but I swear I was about to get soooooo money hungry.....so after he lost his job he didn't contribute to my household at all for a while then he gave me his food stamps and I was sort of pleased but it was yes we'd get into an argument and he'll be like that's why I don't do shit for you he really hurted my feelings.... So now just last month he has found a job this has been check number 2 so far and he haven't gave me a dime I'm being so patient because I already know he'll take every dime and put it into his car he built thanks to being able to steal from the junk yards..... This idiot don't have any drivers license just got a DUI on top of driving without a license and I don't know how many tickets in which I believe in order to get a car out the pound you have to pay for the tickets as well as the storage fee and he has done this 5 times I'm like hell no I been playing myself how in the hell is he steady bonding out of jail and paying tickets and getting a car out the pound with no job? Ladies I just can't find the words to say all I can think of is telling him this is the last week I'm letting you use me you got to contribute or get the hell out I know its going to start an argument so I'm thinking I need a better way.....now that he works his Lil food stamps bout to get cut off or maybe he can make me feel pleased like he did with his other job and show me his check stub he definitely gon have to when its time to reapply for the stamps or he's definitely getting the hell out cause I'm sure not about to feed him too, ladies do you think stamps are okay to keep a relationship also......but actually I posted this to get some advice on how to tell him he needs to contribute any advice will help.....