Ladies I was wondering if you could get on and post for myself and other FTM what are some red flags and symptoms you should keep and eye on. I have had crappy service with naval medicine and I have been to labor and delivery a few times and they are non chalant and basically tell me yeah your pregnant and no big deal and everything is normal.I don't want to ignore things and think everything is okay and something really be going on. Also if someone could list the signs if pre-eclampsia or how you found out you had it other than the high blood pressure and swelling. Please and thank you!!