my response to husband refusing to help me orgasm UPDATE

Also I did not marry him knowing this, why do people assume nobody waits for sex until marriage anymore? It's always missionary, no foreplay, he cums, and goes to sleep.

UPDATE:

He ate me out last night and it was HEAVEN! I guess he finally understood what I was trying to say with this message, and how much it would suck if I were actually to do that. I think we've reached an agreement that I'll get mine and then he'll get his. I wasn't being verbally abusive, I was trying to make a point. And he never even tried to make me orgasm. It was always about him and getting his.