I'm an idiot and decide to read horror pain stories about birth.. I ask every person I know about their horrible births & need some kind of light to stop me completely freaking out about giving birth! My mum had 4 kids and she discribes her labour pain as "just uncomfortable" she arrived at the hospital at 10cm dilated because she didn't think it hurt enough to be "real labour" .. even with my younger brother, she ended up having him in the car on the way to hospital because she didn't have any signs she was in labour!! Please tell me there are other people like that!! Hoping it's genetic and my birth is "easier" than I'm expecting 😱