a little venting never hurt nobody!

My baby boy is 1 week old today💙 & everytime he cries or gets a little fussy when he wakes up, I can never handle the situation myself, my mother in law always comes in & tries to take over. She asks everytime "want me to change him?" "Want me to feed him?" "want me to hold him?" I appreciate that she's here to help but I like doing it myself, I like bonding with my son alone... I can't even do skin to skin without worrying that she will come in. Another thing that really bugs me is sometimes she will just pick him up without asking me. & last but not least, HIS GRANDPA IS ALWAYS KISSING HIS FACE, HE DOESNT LIKE IT AND HE CONTINUES TO DO IT. wait one more, right when I put him to sleep, they come in & are loud saying OH YOU SO CUTE AWWW & it wakes him up. Idk if it's the whole hormonal change thing going on that's making me like this but I get really upset about it. I like taking care of my son myself & don't mind the help just not every single time.