Spit or Swallow

When i give my SO blowjobs i always spit because i do not care for the consistency of cum and it makes me gag, which is crazy when i dont gag when im deep throating. Its not bad to spit and it doesnt make you a freak in the sheets if you swallow. So if u doing it to please your do but you dont like it? Ask your dude if he cares because youll find out like i did that he prefers you to spit or it doesnt matter.