Should i tell him

Sysylya
Ok so this story is very confusing but ill do my best to explain. This story contains me and a few guys..... 
well call them Sam, Dev, and Hon.
I fell for Dev because we were friends with benifits. Nothing too serious. But i loved him. When i told him he backed away, stopped talking to me and we ended it. Then Sam came into my life, he helped me with the passing of my great grandma. Me and sam have never had sex but he cares about me alot. And im thankful for that. 
Then we gave Hon, hes really sweet, hes amazing, weve only hooked up once but he said if i wanted a relationship to tell him.
Now idk who to pick.... i love Dev but he left me and Sam and Hon both wanna be with me
Im confused