So this morning my husband tells me he really enjoyed last night. I had no idea what he was talking about. He said that we'd had sex the night before and he enjoyed it. Well, the thing is, I absolutely do NOT remember having sex at all. I was totally shocked when my hubby said we'd had sex. I'm really bothered by this. I dont know if its because I can't recall it or the fact that because if I was asleep when we had sex, I feel like my husband took advantage of me. I'm sensitive to this possibility because I was raped years ago. I love my husband, but what the hell? I'm very confused and concerned....

Update: Ok, so i talked to my husband and told him my concerns. He said he sincerely thought I was awake and he meant no harm. I believe him and that his intent wasnt malicious. He seemed surprised that I couldn't remember. I think he and i both learned something about "sleep sex." Thanks all for yiur thoughts.