Ok so just wanna know if all you ladies have had a organ? If so how did you reach it? How long does it usually take to fulfill it? Is there certain things that your man does to help you?

I'm asking cause I think I have reached it once in the 10yrs that my man and I have been together. I'm not one to really masterbate. I really don't feel comfortable with my fingers or my man's fingers up there. I just feel weird about It and it doesn't feel all that great ha ha. Weird I know but I'm more of a give me that dick more than n 4 play. Maybe thats why I ain't getting what I need to so that's why im asking all you ladies :)