what the actual freak just happened to me????

Question

I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks and facetiming and today we actually hung out and we were at the the park. We were talking for a while and then he started tickling me and playing around and he started getting extremely close to me and in my face. (While still touching me) and he tried to kiss me and I had a full blown panic attack.

To have facts I was molestsd when I was younger and I haven't kissed anyone in about 4 years. I've only kissed two guys in my life. We had also talked about going slow. And he's about a foot taller than me.

I don't know why I am posting this I guess I just need to feel like I'm not a total bitch or that I am more than damaged.

Answer

You are more than damaged, and you are more than broken- you are a human being with a heart that was taken advantage of so you've guarded it. There's nothing wrong with you or how you handled it or your emotions to it. Take things slow and talk when you're ready to. Stay strong, because you're more than worthy of love. ❤️❤️❤️

Answer

Girl you're fine, your reaction is completely understandable. It sounds like he didn't mean any harm by any of it but maybe he had a different idea of what moving slow means. Have you talked to him about your past and what happened? If not then that could definitely be why he moved quicker and didn't totally understand. If you have talked to him about it then maybe you need to try to talk to him again and reiterate that you're just not comfortable with that yet. If you felt uncomfortable with him (and not just the physical contact) then there's no shame in breaking things off. It's far more important that you feel secure in a relationship regardless of how great you want it to be, does that make sense? You're okay. I hope he responded to your panic attack with respect and kindness.

Answer

From experience I've learned most men like hard to get ladies lol so your fine. Just try to relax next time you see him. Remind him you both agreed on moving slow. And if he doesn't agree then he's not worthy of you anyway.

what the actual freak just happened to me????

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