👆🏼Your opinion.. What is considered Cheating and what is not?

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If your S.O watches porn is that cheating? What if he/ she goes to a strip club and watches naked ppl there? is cheating just when there is physical touch? Or when someone is in a relationship and looks at another and lusts after them is that cheating in their heart? what do you say...?? im curious to know ppls opinions?

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Personally I don't think porn is cheating but I do think it's damaging to people's views on sex and behaviour. I also think there is a huge amount of disrespect to women and outright abuse in the porn industry (not all of it) so to be supporting the industry is supporting and accepting this abuse. Hence, I do lose respect for partners that make a habit of watching it. I think you'll find everyone's views on this vary a lot. I guess everyone figures out what they are comfortable with

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I think emotional or physical affairs are cheating. Speaking with another woman about wanting to be with her or caring for her without the actual sex is cheating and then having sex with another woman. I don't consider porn or strip clubs cheating. But I also wouldn't want him going to a place like that without telling me first.

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It completely depends on the relationship and your expectations for each other.

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I'm not fond of pork or strip clubs but I don't consider that cheating.  But when your S. O touches,  kisses,  or has an emotional affair -  yeah that's cheating

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This is a personal matter and it varies person to person and sometimes relationship to relationship. It only matters how you feel about it not anyone else...

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This is actually a pretty good topic. So here are my answers:
Porn: I don't think it's cheating in the least bit. My relationship is very secure and full of trust and I have complete confidence in it, as does my SO.
Strip clubs: I still don't think that's cheating. It's only fun in my opinion. My SO has gone both with and without me and with friends. I don't see the harm in it. It's not my money that he's blowing, so that's fine. I don't care if other girls are all over him or if he gets lap dances, I even paid for one once lol. He's not kissing them, he's not sticking his dick in them, and he doesn't love them at all. It's purely fun and entertainment. He doesn't know them or keep on contact.  
What I do consider cheating is having an emotion attraction/love with someone, having sex with someone (vaginal/anal/oral), kissing someone, or sexting. 
My relationship is very different than most. My SO and I don't have a jealous bone in our bodies. We both have friends of the opposite sex that we hang out with all the time, with and without each other. My best friend, aside from my SO is a guy. Thing is, we have complete trust and confidence in each other and our relationship. It's been this way for 5 years and we're engaged. There's never been and issue or breech in our boundaries. This is what works for us 👌🏼

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I don't think porn or strip clubs are cheating but, in my relationship, strip clubs are a no go. Not cheating, I just think it's a respect issue for us.

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I dont think strip club or porn are cheating. Some women may be hurt if they find out their SO likes either of those things but it's not cheating. Only physical or if they are talking inappropriately online or texting or whatever. Like showing intent to cheat with someone.

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cheating is physical touch, kissing, oral sex, masturbatin to live web cam girls.

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To me cheating is when you are emotionally involved with another person that isnt your partner. And of course being physical. I dont consider porn or strip clubs cheating.

👆🏼Your opinion.. What is considered Cheating and what is not?

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