Pregnant and fed up

My husband and I aren't doing too well. We both work opposite schedules and never have the same day off. We maybe spend 10 hours awake a week with each other. Never go on dates anymore since we are so busy. We also have a baby on the way. He hasn't helped with anything at all. The nursery is half way done thanks to me and our possible names for our son are picked out because of me. I have already planned when the baby shower will be which it'll be a joint shower because he wants his buddies there which isn't a problem for me. But he hasn't helped me design the invites or even pick the date or place or what food we will be having. He doesn't help me clean the house, when he's the one that makes it dirty again. I also make sure all of the bills are paid on time. The only thing he contributes to is money and helping to make the baby that he so badly wanted right now. I don't want his money I want his time and I want his opinion on things. It's his baby too, not just mine. We got a dog and he barely does anything with the dog, I take care of it and feed it and take it out and bathe it and the dog is obsessed with me because I actually bond with it. I'm afraid our kid will be the same way. My husband is turning into his father and I don't want to tell him that but it's true and he absolutely hates his father. I don't know how to get through to him. He always makes an argument out of it and gets mad instead of realizing he needs to grow up and contribute. Has anyone else gone through this?