is my boyfriend cheating?

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Okay so here's a little backstory: I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years on and off. He's in the army so our relationship is long distance, we see each other during the holidays mostly cause he keeps breaking up with me over the distance, or at least he says that's his reason. The second time he broke up with me was because he was talking to someone else, but he came back and eventually I forgave him for that.

Anyways, like I said before, he's broken up with me before so I can tell when he's acting distant and weird. Recently, he's been acting weird again, and it really bothers me when he doesn't text me back or calls me. He hasn't called me in over a week and has been ignoring me on text for like 5 days. I understand that he's busy, but if you're in a long distance relationship it's not a  lot to be asking for at least a text back. I confronted him about it but my messages aren't going through, so I'm assuming he has me on do not disturb which is so weird cause he's never done that before. I've tried calling him to and NOTHING. I started to get mad because wtf?! So I texted him asking him why the hell he was ignoring me and putting me on "DND". He admitted that he did put me on do not disturb. I also noticed he took off his relationship status on facebook which is also fucking suspicious but he said he only put it on private so only he could see it- fucking stupid if you ask me. So I asked him if he didn't want to be a relationship he should just be upfront about it and stop leading me on cause it's not fair to me. He replied saying that he's not sure if this whole long distance thing is for him. So naturally I got pissed off and gave him an ultimatum because this would be the 3rd time he would be breaking up with me, but before getting back together I told him it would be his last chance and I only reminded him of that. I have not gotten a reply from him since the day that I sent him that, it's been a WEEK. I'm really trying not to lose it but he's making it so hard. What do you think I should do in this situation?!!! PLEASE give me your advice, I really need it.

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The fact that he's not replying is giving you your answer. Just walk away.

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Find a new guy!!

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He's acting too sneaky. Don't waste your time hun

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I'm going to be rather blunt here...from what you've told us it doesn't seem like he's leading you on at all. If anything he's trying to end the relationship without actually saying it's over. It's easier to do that with distance and he may think his message is clear but of course to a woman- not so much. The only thing that keeps a long distant relationship together IS the communication. I wouldn't go as far as cheating because there's so little evidence you've told us. But there is a chance he has another long distant relationship if not multiple. I'm an army spouse myself and have seen some pretty crazy and sad situations through the years. If you can accept that your relationship is coming to an end then just let it go girl. No woman should be stressing like this over a jerk like that!!

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He's not treating you with respect. Walk away and in time you'll find someone who will go out of their way to treat you how you deserve to be and want to be treated ☺

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Gonna b hard but it's not worth the trouble, u end it before he does because that's not how u treat your woman

is my boyfriend cheating?

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