Ugh this shit pissed me off.

Seriously, I already know how my birth plan is gonna go and how i want to do it. I plan to have a vbac with my baby, and i guess they didn't know i had a csection with my first but that's cause I had a shitty ob and it was uneccesary and no reason was given anyways it was just a horrible freakin mess And my fiances mother is literally saying you won't make past 4 5cm without getting epidural or whatever bc your a whiny butt, like how do you know? And i was like see people judge bc how little i am and im 5'1 and I know i can do a vbac and its just sad people just don't have faith or they think you won't make it, bc your height or how you are i guess idk but honestly my mindset is ready and determined to do this, idc how much pain im in, im a fighter and im a very strong person, my plan is to atleast make it to 6cm without an epidural or any pain medicine unless my doctor says otherwise! But this is why this is what is between me, my fiance and my doctor, and this is why my fiance is only going to be in the room when I labor, bc i need the support, not people that aren't gonna support me through it! Anyways I needed to vent bc they don't know me very well obviously they don't know my body, he'll idk what to even expect when that time comes but I have a birth plan for a reason and let's say I'm keeping an open mind as well and my doctor encourages me on it and understands too if I'm in labor and something happens to where baby is breech, or something medically neccersary then yes I'll have to have a csection but im not worried bc everything is on track and healthy and baby has been head down since 29 weeks, plus it's been 7 8 years since my csection i had with my daughter. But anyways, ugh shit like that pisses me off, but im glad i have a fiance that knows me very well, and gave me a kiss and said don't worry about it baby I know you can do it, don't listen to it and that really made me feel so much better, thank God for the man I have that supports me and knows i can do this 100%.

People's opinions whether it's family or not, it's just better to keep to your damn self unless your me, my doctor, etc! Otherwise, MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS! and support me and just keep the negativity away from me!

Sorry for ranting! But ugh!