I just don't understand?!

This lady said to me 'I don't know why you bother to work when you can just chill at home and live off other people'... 

first of all I have a very good work ethic so I don't need to live off of no one. Secondly I want to be able to buy my own shit and say that I own that shit and not someone else. And thirdly, I'm sick and tired of seeing or hearing about people who sit around at home, not looking for a job because they can't be bothered. 

I understand some people can't work for general reasons like disability, children or generally can't find a job, you know the acceptable reason, but when your sitting around at home, going out every weekend, getting your nails and hair did at the expense of tax payers, your crossing a line. 

Laziness doesn't appeal to me at all. If you genuinely can't work I understand, but when your just plain lazy I wonder. This woman claims benefits, with this she gets her nails and hair done and she always makes sure she gets them done, she wears expensive clothes that she likes to brag about, but her kids would look completely different. She spends all her money on herself but never the kids. I personally find that disgusting. If you can make yourself look good, you can make your kids look good aswell.